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By law, board members are supposed to put the best interest of the church above all personal considerations — but how is that even possible? Board members in most churches play many other roles throughout the church, and many board decisions affect them and those they love. Potential conflicts of interest arise whenever a board member plays multiple roles. In churches, multiple roles and relationships are the rule, not the exception.

Look around the board table: John and Frieda work for the same company; Frieda’s daughter  babysits for Susan’s grandson; Susan has belonged for years to Peter’s study group; Peter, who has been assistant treasurer for 30 years, is married to the choir director. Then there’s the pastor, who stands in multiple relationships to everybody. Even in a relatively healthy church, an “organization chart” that tried to capture all such formal and informal links would resemble an unusually messy cobweb.

No wonder that on many boards it’s awkward to begin talking about conflicts of interest. Relationships around the table already bristle with potential conflicts, so anyone who tries to raise the subject risks a defensive response. That’s one reason boards put off this important conversation. Another is the belief (often against official doctrine) that church people are naturally well-meaning, moral people, making it offensive to suggest they might need rules to keep them on the straight and narrow. Nonetheless, a church governing board, like any nonprofit board, is mandated by law to keep its stewardship unsullied by conflicts of interest. In legal language board members are fiduciaries (from the Latin fides, faith).

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Who Owns a Congregation?

Comparisons are useful but tricky. New Testament writers compare the church to a human body, a herd of sheep, a bride, and a vineyard. Synagogues are often likened to a house, a tent, or an extended family. None of these analogies is meant to be exact or literal—a church may act in some ways like a herd of sheep, but a wise leader doesn’t plan on it. Poets do exaggerate sometimes.

In the same spirit of poetic license, it may at times it may be useful to compare the clergy leader of a congregation to a corporate CEO, its members to customers or stockholders, or its staff to the employees of a charity. We can draw many useful analogies between congregations, other nonprofits, and businesses, but ultimately congregations need ideas and language of their own. It is easy to say that “the church should run more like a business,” without recognizing that in some respects the church should and does run very differently.

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Q: Our minister has announced his retirement. During his long ministry, we have avoided most of the conflict about homosexuality raging in our national church. How can we look for a minister without dividing our congregation?

A: Right now, several North American religious groups are sharply split about how and whether to accept gay clergy. If your denomination is divided, you understandably want to protect your congregation from following suit.

Over the years, your church may have welcomed some openly gay people warmly, even though some members consider their behavior unbiblical or wrong. As long as your minister stayed put, you could live with the inconsistency.

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Planning to Grow

When churches plan, one of the things they often plan to do is grow. They have their reasons: the Great Commission, for one, and the fact that spreading the gospel is a main point of the congregation’s purpose. But when you get past polite chit-chat, other motives will assert themselves.

For clergy, church growth is a career move. I can’t criticize this—my first church grew, and I’ve collected dividends on that achievement ever since. It was only partly my achievement. Nonetheless, let me be the first to say that I have benefited, and one of the reasons I encouraged growth was that I hoped and expected to reap benefits down the road.

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Conflicts of Interest

“Conflict of interest” is an ugly phrase, but it’s time to say it, lay it on the table, and deal with it as a normal part of life. Everybody who is not a hermit manages conflicting interests all the time. Congregations’ awkwardness and silence on the subject only makes us vulnerable.
Many congregations accept practices that in other contexts we would question. For example, when the driveway needs re-topping, why deal with someone we don’t know when good old Tom of Tom’s Blacktop sits right here at the board table? We know he’ll give us a good price (don’t we?). In any case, if we suddenly quit using him, he’d be upset…

Read more about “Conflicts of Interest” www.alban.org.

Reporting on a ravaged Mississippi town on the Gulf coast, the Associated Press said that “Katrina clobbered the rich and poor alike.” A cliché repeated often enough slips past the brain into the heart. We like the idea that in times of disaster all stand equally in awe before the powers that beset us. The proud are leveled, and the humble are (at least relatively) raised up.

In truth, though, precious little affects rich and poor alike. Wealth confers huge advantages, including the ability to drive away ahead of hurricanes, insure vulnerable property, and find comfortable shelter. Poverty wears people down even in fair weather; when the storm comes it kills a lot more of the poor. The rich have more to lose, and may feel more surprise, but the worst actual damage falls to the poorest.

Read more about “Pretending to be Equal” on the Alban Institute website.

Once in a while an article seems to strike a nerve, and continues to be read and requested for years. Here are some of mine that have made the biggest splash:

  • The Stewardship of Risk Taking risks is just as much a part of stewardship as thrift.
  • What is the Mission of “Missions”? Most congregations engage in some kind of social ministry. But why?
  • The Post-Construction Blues After the building dedication, many congregations fall into a slump. How to prevent it, how to move through it.
  • Ask Alban: Is it Wise to Hire Members? Advice for congregations thinking about hiring members for staff roles, and for members thinking about becoming staff.
  • A Soul Decision Many guides to raising money suggest that there is one legitimate motivation for giving. The truth is that people give for many reasons.
  • Microsoft Outlook is notoriously lacking in project-management and client-relationship features. As part of my system for managing my consulting and other work, I file all correspondence (incoming and outgoing) into Outlook folders by client. I also "mirror" my Outlook folder structure, as much as possible, in the Windows file system. Each mail folder in my Outlook PST file has a matching folder under My Documents.

    It’s handy to have the most important folders at the top of the list, not only to make them easy to find but to keep them in view so that I don’t forget the projects and clients they represent. One handy way to do this is to begin the file name with a special character. Some special characters are allowed in Outlook folder names but not in the names of folders or files in the Windows file system. The period can be part of a Windows folder name so long as it is not the first character. All special characters sort to the top of the list except the hyphen and single quote, which are ignored in sorting by both systems. The oddball in the bunch is the double quote, which Outlook puts between the exclamation point and the number sign, but Windows ignores.

    To save others the work of figuring this out, here is a table of the special characters available directly from the English keyboard layout:

    Character

    Outlook

    Windows

    !

    "

    Ignored in sorting

    #

    $

    %

    &

    (

    )

    *

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    ,

    Windows sometimes gets confused if you use in folder names (see comment).

    .

    Not allowed as first character of file or folder names

    /

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    :

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    ;

    Windows sometimes gets confused if you use in folder names (see comment).

    ?

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    @

    [

    Windows sometimes gets confused if you use in folder names (see comment).

    /

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    ]

    Windows sometimes gets confused if you use in folder names (see comment).

    ^

    _

    {

    |

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    }

    +

    <

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    =

    >

    Not allowed in file or folder names

    A-Z, 0-9

    Ignored in sorting

    Ignored in sorting

    -

    Ignored in sorting

    Ignored in sorting

    Here’s a list of some of the books and other resources I have found most helpful and provocative as I have thought about how congregations can best organize their boards, clergy, staff, and volunteers to envision and carry out powerful ministries:

    BoardSource. Many resources available at www.boardsource.org.

    Carver, John, and Miriam Mayhew Carver, Reinventing Your Board: A Step-by-Step Guide to Implementing Policy Governance. revised edition (San Francisco, CA: John Wiley & Sons, Inc, 2006).

    Chait, Richard, William P. Ryan, Barbara E, Taylor, and BoardSource (organization), Governance As Leadership: Reframing the Work of Nonprofit Boards (Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons, 2005).

    Easum, William M., and Thomas G. Bandy, Growing Spiritual Redwoods (Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1997).

    Friedman, Edwin H., Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue, The Guilford Family Therapy Series (New York: Guilford Press, 1985).

    Heifetz, Ronald A., Leadership Without Easy Answers (Cambridge, MA: Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, 1994).

    Leader to Leader Institute. Many resources available at www.leadertoleader.org.

    Long, Edward Le Roy, Patterns of Polity: Varieties of Church Governance (Cleveland, OH: Pilgrim Press, 2001).

    Owen, Harrison, Open Space Technology: A User’s Guide, 2nd edition (San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, 1997).

    Steinke, Peter L., Healthy Congregations: A Systems Approach, 2nd edition (Herndon, VA Alban Institute, 2006)

    Warren, Richard, The Purpose-Diven Church: Growth Without Compromising Your Message & Mission (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing, 1995).

    Weisbord, Marvin Ross, and Sandra Janoff, Future Search: An Action Guide to Finding Common Ground in Organizations and Communities, 2nd edition, updated and expanded edition (San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, 2000).

    I’ve been working for some time on a diagram to express some of themes about congregational governance. Partly to get feedback, and partly as a test of the whole process of uploading, here it is. At some future point I’ll post a commentary, but even without that I would be interested to hear what you see or don’t see in the picture.

    Dan

    Click thumbnail picture to view:

    ministry-governance-diagram.jpg

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